Internet words durian family, strawberry family are
Durian clan was a group of people who had certain work qualifications in the workplace, but had a stinky and hard temper and were not easy to get along with. The term "durian clan" came from Mayday Ashin's "Mickey Mouse": "Who is the strawberry clan, you are the durian clan, you are stubborn in hurting people, hurting me, and I don't want to cry."
Durian and Strawberry
Today's young people are always dubbed "strawberry clan" and "peach clan". In the eyes of the so-called "adults", they are a group of new humans who chase the latest technology all day long, have no thoughts but cannot resist collisions. For such a stereotype, the pop band Mayday retorted in the song "Mickey Mouse": "Who is the strawberry clan, you are the durian clan, you are stubborn in hurting people, you hurt me, and I don't want to cry." A clear portrayal of the "durian clan" as the opposite of the strawberry clan: stubborn and rude.
Durian family's workplace
Compared to the Strawberry Tribe who had just entered the workforce, the Durian Tribe had been in the workforce for many years, and most of them were already married and had children, so their lives were much more stressful. For them, work may have long been divorced from their hobbies, and they just lived a step-by-step life. Under such circumstances, the Durian Tribe would feel more and more tired about their careers, and they would naturally be less easy-going and more irritable about people and things.
However, the workplace durian tribes who called themselves old durians did not really admit that they were bad-tempered and rigid diehards, but aimed at the incentives behind the durian tribes' bad temper, calling themselves "workplace paste" - to make it this way.
If the bad-tempered trait refers to the internal characteristics of the durian clan, then "hard leather" refers to the appalling dignity of the durian clan: long-term staying up late and working overtime, coupled with the traces of time, make the durian clan's face not very good-looking, and may have crow's feet or white hair early; provide for the house and for the children to go to school, and have to save some spare money for their own pension immediately. The durian clan's economy can no longer be prosperous, and it has to be greatly discounted in self-image packaging.
In addition, durians who have become "workplace old fritters" often regard themselves as thick-skinned, as if everyone can become the "resounding copper pea" in the workplace.
Strawberry meets durian
In practical experience, strawberries touching durians were equivalent to eggs touching rocks. Soft and tender strawberries were no match for durians at all. However, in the workplace, if there was a real encounter between the strawberry and durian tribes, the situation would be as follows:
1. Water and fire are incompatible
Plot: In the TV series "Ugly Girl Invincible", the beautiful woman Pei Na entered the company by relationship, attracted many men by beauty, but also offended some "durian" colleagues in the company. Everyone often used "black" Pei Na, so that Pei Na had to cry with the male boss.
Analysis: between the weak strawberry clan and the hard-line durian clan, if the two are really incompatible, strawberries generally do not understand the roundabout, and the result of hard confrontation is often that strawberries suffer.
2. Shake hands and make peace
Plot: In the Hong Kong TVB drama "Fighting Enemy", the male protagonist initially contradicts the instructor's fighting spirit, and finally the two shake hands and make peace, and the protagonist becomes an excellent and qualified police officer.
Analysis: In the workplace, the struggle between strawberries and durians is often only a momentary battle. If good communication is achieved to achieve mutual understanding, it will be beneficial to both the strawberry and durian tribes.
3. Emotional sublimation
Plot: In the Japanese TV series "Notes of an Intern", a beautiful female intern meets a strange-tempered senior who not only loves to curse people, but also often attacks the intern. But in the end, through running in again and again, the female doctor discovers that the senior is actually a good doctor with high medical ethics, and the two get along well, like father and daughter.
Analysis: In fact, many seemingly vicious durians in the workplace are just knives and tofu hearts, and their ruthless face is just their appearance. They are all willing to help newcomers in their bones.
