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Although his parents were public figures, Pan Shiyi's son was obviously not plated with a layer of "gold" like some rich second generation and official second generation, but more like a child of an ordinary family, knowing humility and gratitude, which was inseparable from Pan Shiyi's unique education method.
The meaning of Pan Shiyi's son's name
Pan Shiyi has two sons. The eldest son, Pan Rang, is 13 years old, and the youngest son, Pan Shao, is 11 years old. Many people have wondered why Pan Shiyi's son's name is so special. In fact, it contains a father's expectations for his son: to be a person who knows how to let go and wants less, and to have a warm and happy life.
Pan Shiyi's son, Pan Rang, was born in Hong Kong in 1998. Pan Shiyi personally cut the umbilical cord for the child and recorded all the scenes of his wife's cesarean section with a digital camera. The scene of crying and blood mixed together touched him a lot. For the first time, he really felt the weight of the word "father", and just before he had planned how to be a good father, the second child came to the world. Looking at the two cute little guys, one big and one small, Pan Shiyi was a little anxious. He didn't want to be a failed father.
Once, when asked "how to understand the word'father '," Pan Shiyi laughed heartily, then said quietly: "I can answer with some standard answers, but I don't want to say that, it's not interesting. In fact, because I am busy with work, I feel that I have too little communication with my children. You see, for example, the fashionable words that children say these days - cool and handsome, I will find it very novel, and some even don't understand it. This kind of communication barrier prompts me to spend more time with them. Between father and son, communication is very important."
Pan Shiyi's son: an extremely popular and kind child
Those who have seen Pan Shiyi's son say that they are particularly sensible and simple, and have no habits of the so-called rich children at all.
Pan Shiyi's eldest son, Pan Rang, was recognized as a kind child in school. Once, he played a game with his classmates and tore a small hole in his classmate's clothes. The classmate asked him to pay, and Pan Rang felt very aggrieved. Later, Pan Rang took out his pocket money to buy the child a new dress, and comforted himself by saying: Pay for it, his broken clothes can just be worn for me!
Pan Shiyi's youngest son, Pan Shao, also has an undisputed demeanor. In the kindergarten, everyone else competed for the lead role or supporting role in the fairy tale drama. Only he, let others choose first, and finally can only play a tree without a word, wearing a mask and standing there without moving, he is quite happy.
According to the logic of many parents, such a child must be bullied everywhere in school, but the truth is quite the opposite. Pan Shiyi's son is very popular, and he can quickly get along with the people around him wherever he goes. When choosing a monitor in school, they will always get the highest votes.
Pan Shiyi educates his son: to learn to be grateful
Pan Shiyi's son is a veritable rich second generation, but since childhood, he has been subject to three rules: if he can eat at home, he will not go out to eat; he can only buy one toy every time he enters the store; and he will only give 100 yuan for the holidays. Pan Shiyi's son has known the truth that "wealth is not enough for three generations" since he was a child, so when some classmates inquire curiously about how much money their family has, they never care about how much property they have. They always can't answer.
However, if you ask Pan Shiyi's sons how much they donated to charity in total, they can not only answer a total amount, but also tell the specific amount each time. Every time Pan Shiyi participates in a charity event, he will definitely bring his son with him. The first time he participated in such an event, the eldest son asked Pan Shiyi in surprise: "Dad, can we eat one less ice cream and buy one less toy, so that the children in the mountains can really go to school for an extra month?" Pan Shiyi did not rush to answer. The next day, he took his two sons back to his hometown in Gansu Province, allowing them to experience the different lives of children in poverty-stricken areas at zero distance. After returning to the city, Pan Shiyi found that the two sons were less wasteful than in the past.
When Pan Shiyi's son was very young, he had a pocket money account, and they saved all the money in the bank. Pan Shiyi always hinted to them that the pocket money was saved and used to pay for tuition when they were in college. As a result, when his son went to participate in charity activities not long ago, the two children under the age of ten actually donated more than 2,000 yuan each. At that time, this was a surprise to Pan Shiyi. Afterwards, he quietly asked his two sons: "You have taken out all the money, how can you still have money to study in college in the future?" The son said: "But those children in the mountains can't even study in elementary school now." Then he asked nervously, "Dad, you really won't let us have no money to study in college, will you?" Pan Shiyi smiled and thought, "How could it be?"
Cultivating children's gratitude through charitable activities is also another goal of Pan Shiyi. Three years ago, Pan Shiyi took his son to the South East Asia tsunami donation party. The one million yuan check was handheld by Pan Shiyi's two sons. At that time, some people mistook the family's attendance at such an event for a catwalk. Later, it was understood that he was educating his son. "In fact, whether it is adults or children, the scenes of poverty and disaster are the most gripping." Pan Shiyi wanted his son to remember these unforgettable images at the scene.
Pan Shiyi's special reward for his son
On the road to success, Pan Shiyi has not been smooth sailing. He has also suffered a lot and suffered a lot of deception, but no matter the situation is good or bad, he will give himself a small gift as comfort or encouragement. In the early process of educating children, Pan Shiyi has always wanted to try to graft this model of self-agreement and self-admiration onto his son. Because when his son was three years old, he found that the little guy began to have his own mind and will. Sometimes he did not listen to him and his wife. The more he criticized the child, the more he rebelled, or simply asked his parents for gifts. Otherwise, he cried and confronted, which made the child's bad habits a problem that could not be changed, and a vicious circle.
One day, Pan Shiyi's son slipped into the study and lay on his desk to paint a sketch of a community that was about to start construction in Shenzhen. The sun was bright red, the ground was green, and the house was gray... A cold architectural sketch turned into a vivid children's painting. His wife, Zhang Xin, hugged her son and defended him nervously: "The child is still young and ignorant, don't blame the child, you can ask the design department to make a new one." However, Pan Shiyi not only did not blame, but said excitedly: "Hey, I finally found the best gift for my son!"
Pan Shiyi immediately found a piece of white paper and first drew a bed on it. A child was sleeping on the bed, and then seven large blue circles were drawn around the bed on top of the paper. His wife Zhang Xin asked in confusion, "What are you doing?" Pan Shiyi smiled secretly: "You will know later." Pan Shiyi's son liked this painting very much, and he grabbed the color pen with his little hand and was about to smear it, but he was stopped. Pan Shiyi inspired his son: "The bed in the picture is the one in your room. The seven large blue circles on the bed represent the seven days of the week. If you can sleep alone in your room from tonight, then you can paint your favorite color in the middle of the blue circle every day."
It turns out that the four-year-old son has been sleeping in the same bed as his parents, which is not a good thing for a close couple or a growing child, but the little guy refuses to sleep in the small bed in his room. But after seeing the picture drawn by his father, Pan Shiyi's son actually slept in his room that night. The first thing he did when he woke up the next morning was to smear a bright red in the big blue circle in the picture.
From then on, when Pan Shiyi's son completed such "masterpieces", the paintings were neatly pasted on the walls of the house. Pan Shiyi explained: "Rewards are indeed the best way to make children obedient, so we have to take this purposeful prize seriously. Paste the picture where the child can see it, and an interactive picture will remind him what his goal is!"
Father and Son Workshop: Companionship is the best gift
Nowadays, many parents will buy many expensive gifts for their children, which will create very favorable material conditions for their children, but children still do not feel happy and are not close enough to their parents. In fact, children are not so eager for material things. What they really need is not these, but parents who can accompany them, play, share and communicate with them.
"Father and Son Studio" was the name given by Pan Shiyi's son, Pan Rang. There were all kinds of saws, electric planers, electric grinders, and other tools in this room, and they made stools or bird's nests together. This was the happiest time for Pan Shiyi and his son. What to do and how to do, the father and son discussed, the son was right, and the father listened to his son. Pan Shiyi's mistakes would still be laughed at by his sons. Here, father was no longer an untouchable noun, but something that could be felt and touched. Pan Shiyi's many methods, procedures, and experiences of doing things naturally influenced his son in the process.
They also have a "Father and Son Reading Club". Pan Shiyi learned to write blogs, articles, and books by studying and reading with the children. I believe that Pan Shiyi's son must have gained a lot.
Although his parents are public figures, Pan Shiyi's son is obviously not plated with a layer of "gold" like some rich second generation and official second generation, but more like a child of ordinary family, knowing humility and gratitude, which is inseparable from Pan Shiyi's unique education method. On the road of parenting, Pan Shiyi has made many similar mistakes, so sometimes he will joke with young people: "If you are not ready, I advise you not to rush to have a child. You know, having a child is more difficult than leading a team. When I started my business, it was not so difficult!"
Pan Shiyi's profile resume
Pan Shiyi was born on November 14, 1963 in Tianshui City, Gansu Province. In 1982, after graduating from China Petroleum Pipeline Institute, he was assigned to work in the Pipeline Bureau of the Ministry of Petroleum in Langfang, Hebei Province. In 1987, he quit his job and went to Shenzhen, Hainan, and later to Beijing, specializing in real estate development. In 1992, he co-founded Beijing Wantong Co., Ltd. with his partner to develop real estate in Beijing. In 1995, he co-founded SOHO China Co., Ltd. with his wife Zhang Xin. Since the establishment of the company, the two have jointly developed a series of commercial real estate projects. In the eyes of people, he is a young man from a poor area in the west who insists on his dreams, shows his business talent and enterprising spirit, seizes the good opportunity of China's reform and opening up, and finally becomes a successful example of the industry pioneer. > > > More about
Zhang Xin's Profile
Zhang Xin was born in Beijing on August 24, 1965 and moved to Hong Kong at the age of 14. After that, she studied economics at the University of Sussex in the UK. She graduated from Cambridge University in 1992 with a master's degree in development economics. She then joined Wall Street, worked at Goldman Sachs and Travelers Group, before returning to China in late 1995 to start their own real estate company, SOHO China, with Pan Shiyi.
In October 2002, Zhang Xin won the global "Architecture Art Promotion Award" equivalent to the Academy Award in the field of architecture for "Commune at the foot of the Great Wall". In July 2004, Zhang Xin was named one of the 25 "Asian Stars" in 2004 by Business Week. In January 2005, Zhang Xin was selected as a "Young Global Leader" by the World Economic Forum in Davos, which is a recognition of her achievements and expectations for her future contributions to changing the world. > > > More about Zhang Xin's resume
