That's the difference between smart people and stupid people
First, learn to respect others
1. Smart people smile, stupid people are cold
2. Smart people remember other people's names, but stupid people want their names to be remembered
3. Smart people understand the minds of others, while stupid people express their needs
4. Smart people are good listeners, but stupid people are impatient
Second, do not engage in meaningless arguments
5. Smart people agree first, stupid people deny first
6. Smart people let others say "yes" gradually, stupid people will cause more arguments
7. Smart people are intelligent and humorous, while stupid people are dull and boring
8. Smart people change what they know, but stupid people are stubborn
Third, don't speak
9. Smart people suggest it politely, but stupid people deny it outright
10. Smart people don't speak up, stupid people go straight to the point
11. Smart people are silent, but stupid people are silent
12. Smart people politely reject, stupid people coldly oppose
IV. Learn to adapt
13. Smart people look at their objects when they speak, while stupid people speak blindly
14. Smart people are good at reading words and expressions, but stupid people don't "do what they like"
15. Smart people look at the occasion, but stupid people are "single-minded"
16. Smart people talk about things that interest the other person, while stupid people talk about things that interest them
Fifth, be a likeable person
17. Smart people are low-key and modest, while stupid people are arrogant
18. Smart people are tolerant and magnanimous, while stupid people pay for everything
19. Smart people are honest and trustworthy, but stupid people are hypocritical and detestable
20. Smart people take care of others' sense of self-esteem, while stupid people satisfy their own vanity
Sixth, care for others and be happy with yourself
21. Smart people care about others in every detail, while stupid people plan for themselves everywhere
22. Smart people praise well, but stupid people are willing to criticize
23. Smart people inspire others, while stupid people pour cold water on them
24. Smart people are good at helping others out, while stupid people stay away
VII. Doing things efficiently
25. Smart people have clear goals, while stupid people get by
26. Smart people are good at making plans, while stupid people scratch their eyebrows and beards
27. Smart people cooperate effectively with others, while stupid people prefer to go it alone
28. Smart people tap into their potential, while stupid people only work hard
VIII. Action Achieves Dreams
29. Smart people take action, but stupid people indulge in fantasies
30. Smart people are vigorous, but stupid people are lazy
31. Smart people are unconventional, while stupid people follow the crowd blindly
32. Smart people plan ahead, stupid people make amends
Nine, do not drill the horns of life
33. Smart people take gains and losses lightly, while stupid people are burdened by fame and gain
34. Smart people know how to give up, but stupid people remember sadness
35. Smart people improve their weaknesses, while stupid people complain about their weaknesses
36. Smart people know how to be flexible, but stupid people are dead
Confidence is the sunshine that illuminates success
37. Smart people don't cry over spilled milk, and stupid people often punish themselves for mistakes
38. Smart people overcome low self-esteem, while stupid people are captured by low self-esteem
39. Smart people are passionate about life, but stupid people lack passion
40. Smart people prepare for the worst, but stupid people always assume the worst
Eleven, don't get along with work
41. Smart people create opportunities, but stupid people wait for good luck
42. Smart people work with wisdom, while stupid people work with physical strength
43. Smart people love their jobs, while stupid people become numb at work
44. Smart people know how to rest, but stupid people are workaholics
Chapter 12: Enjoy life and enjoy happiness
45. Smart people give their hearts a break, but stupid people tighten their heartstrings
46. Smart people control money, but stupid people are bound by it
47. Smart people live every day, but stupid people waste their time
48. Smart people feel happy, but stupid people are always unhappy
