I feel like I won't love the source anymore and I'm so tired
"I feel like I won't love again" is a recent Internet buzzword. Its original meaning was originally used to express inner depression after love was frustrated. Later, it was extended to a sentence to complain when encountering small setbacks and small hardships. The original text came from the log of Douban netizens. Because he was only 13 years old, he complained that he was "about to be 13 years old, single, physically and mentally exhausted, and felt that he won't love again" and became popular among netizens.
The source of feeling that there will be no more love
From Douban netizens
The title that feels like I won't love you anymore
I will be 13 soon, single, physically and mentally exhausted, and feel that I will never love again
Feeling like I won't love again
I lived for 14 years and six months, 13 days away, talked about many, let down many, missed 5, liked 4, loved 2, regretted breaking up 1, and loved 1. I dare not announce the previous one, but I dare to say the last one, Shabi!
When I was in the car with the significant others today, she said that they have already targeted the post-00s boys
I laughed at myself as a 98-year-old man
So it turned out to be true.
My heart is inexplicably desolate, it seems that I will never love again
Strive to be an independent man, but I can't resist the bite of loneliness
Not willing to be lonely, blind date and marriage, mediocre every day
I will easily like a woman, just like a certain second will suddenly like a significant other, but soon wake up and know that it is not
Love is a lot of burden. I don't want to have a nonsense relationship with her at all.
Love is powerless.
Social concerns that feel like they won't love again
In recent years, the People's Daily published an article "Don't Let Youth Dye Twilight (Youth View) ", which commented on the current post-80s and post-90s buzzwords "I don't feel like I'll love again" and lamented the old mood. The original text is as follows:
It seemed that overnight, the post-80s generation collectively became "old". First, they were nostalgic. They sang "old boy", lamented the summer wearing sea soul shirts and leather sandals that faded from their memories, missed the comic strips they saw, and the girls they chased together in those years. Then sigh old. A group of post-80s, who were still children in the eyes of their parents, sighed "old" in front of children younger than themselves. "My heart is so tired, I feel like I won't love again"...
What is it that makes the younger generation, who should be vibrant, become dull?
It is undeniable that those who seem to be "hypocritical" complain have an indescribable taste of youth behind them. Compared with their parents, the younger generation has unparalleled living conditions and growth environment, but the times have also created new forms of tempering. Growing up in the era of reform and opening up, they had cartoons and soda in their childhood, as well as endless homework; they have broader life choices than their parents, and they also face unprecedented intense competition; they live in the Internet age and industrial civilization that a generation has never experienced, and they also taste the helplessness and pressure brought by urbanization; they step into a society with unprecedented mobility, and they also encounter spiritual confusion and lack of identity...
For young people living in such a transformative era, life is like a treadmill that keeps accelerating. On the one hand, it represents a certain quality of life worth pursuing. On the other hand, it also means that if you don't speed up, you will be thrown off. What's more worrying is that you run for a long time without knowing where you are going, and you keep running in exchange for only a series of numbers on the display screen. In such a situation, whether it is nostalgia or sighing, it expresses a nostalgia for the beautiful past in the face of stress.
If "sighing old" is just the release and complaining of emotions, then the mental "premature aging" is worthy of vigilance. Young people with "premature aging" sometimes appear to be very similar to "mature", their actions and actions are incomparably correct, they receive people and things appropriately, and they speak and talk thoughtfully. But it always makes people feel that something is missing.
What was missing? After thinking about it, it turned out that the youth's vigor and vigor were missing. Shouldn't the youth dare to think and act? Shouldn't it be to express their hearts directly? Shouldn't it be to dare to be the first?
When the Austrian writer Zweig recalled Europe in the peaceful days before World War I, he described a rather curious phenomenon: young doctors who had just graduated from medical school had grown big beards and put on gold-rimmed glasses, and they did so only to give their patients the impression of "experience". Youth is an obstacle to development, but old age is an advantage.
Mistrust of the young pervaded all social hierarchies of the time, and it was completely forgotten that Mozart and Schubert completed the works that established their lifetime honors in their thirties. A deep twilight hung over the society of the time. Young people pretending to be old and aging prematurely is nothing more than a manifestation of the declining vitality of this society.
When young people have vigor, there will be vigor in society; when young people have a bright future to run for, the future of society will be bright. To remove the twilight that hangs over society and lingers in the hearts of young people, society needs to open more doors of opportunity to them, provide a fairer competitive environment, and a broader room for growth. As Comrade Xi Jinping said, "Open up a vaster sky for young people to gallop their ideas, build a broader stage for young people to practice and innovate, provide richer opportunities for young people to shape their lives, and create more favorable conditions for young people to make achievements and make achievements." Let youth become capital rather than deficiency, and let the enterprising and energetic youth spirit become a social fashion.
Young people should rise up before the call of the times and be more responsible and responsible. The fathers and brothers of contemporary young people have taken the lead and used the spirit of struggle to wait for the day to come, in exchange for the Chinese miracle that amazes the world. The pointer of the wheel of the times has fallen on the contemporary young people, and the fate of the country is also the fate of the young people. It is the responsibility of young people to shoulder this mission.
Four versions of popular influence
Entertainment version: I'm so tired, I feel like I won't love again
10 filmmakers reflect on the 2012 film industry: I'm so tired, I feel like I won't love again
Two or three years ago, Chinese films were already showing signs of madness. Seven or eight films were being filmed on a single subject, and various capitals were competing to enter the film market. Actors' salaries rose to a new high.
If it weren't for the release of American blockbusters, the madness mentioned above could have lasted at least two or three years. However, the "American soldiers" poured cold water on the feverish Chinese movies in advance. Many projects that seemed never to lose money in 2011 lost a lot of money in 2012.
This is indeed a very tiring year. Chinese filmmakers have worked hard, but the harvest has been less. At the end of the year, these 10 filmmakers interviewed by Tencent Film are all visionaries in their respective industries. We hope that these 10 people, their opinions, can be like the "Lost in Thailand" at the end of the year, becoming 10 heart-boosting needles, popping, sticking in the thighs of these filmmakers who "will never love again".
Box office version: I'm so tired, I feel like I won't love again
And this society is also in need of Xingye's "Amitabha" and Tang monk's tight spell. We once had full confidence in love, but over the years, the pervasive hostility has exhausted it. Li Gang, Guo Meimei, Zhou Kehua, Gong Aiai followed one after another, gutter oil, plasticizer, poisoned milk powder, and poisoned school uniforms emerged in an endless stream. The Year of the Snake has just begun, and cold water has been poured on it. The Li family's young master in Beijing is suspected of gang rape, the tragedy of car theft and infanticide on the streets of Changchun, and dead pigs float on the Huangpu River in Shanghai... In such a world, how can people feel that they will love again? At this time, we have to think of the "Three Hundred Children's Songs", look forward to the arrival of the exorcist, and thank Xingye for his transcendence.
It seems that the box office myth just confirms the needs of the times. Don't be funny, don't love, what you want is positive energy, and what you want is to be able to restore your confidence in love. So, after watching "Journey to the West", do you feel like you will love again?
IT version: I'm so tired, I feel like I won't love again
Feeling that they will never love again, why did they leave Chen Tianqiao?
On March 7, 2013, there was an "earthquake" on the Chinese website of Qidian, a subsidiary of Shanda Literature. The official lightly announced that "some employees have left", but Hou Xiaoqiang, CEO of Shanda Literature, is directly responsible for the work of Qidian, which means that the rumored "departure of the founder team of Qidian" may have become a reality.
Those who are familiar with Shanda know that this is just the first wave of the "executive departure wave" with Shanda's characteristics in 2013. Before that, whether it was the veterans who had been able to lay the foundation for "Legend" when Shanda started, or the paratroopers who joined due to various business development needs, or the "new immigrants" who were integrated as a whole due to acquisitions, the number of executives who left Shanda has far exceeded the legendary 14. According to Yu De, vice president of Speed Media, among the earliest pioneering "Sheng Fighters" ten years ago, Tan Qunzhao, Zhu William, Yue Tao, Li Yu, and Lin Tsunami have left one after another. And Li Shanyou, Xu Chaojun, Long Danni and other paratroopers who joined because of acquisitions, expansion, and integration also left after a short stay. Some people's departure was even full of gunpowder.
Love Version: I'm so tired, I feel like I won't love again
Talking about love in March, "girlfriend" is actually a man! Boy: I feel like I won't love again.
After meeting at a bar, he fell in love at first sight and tried his best to launch a "Xiaoqiang-style" pursuit for half a month. But "girlfriend" Tiantian put forward conditions - only platonic love, no physical contact is allowed! After three months of dating, the Harbin guy found out that the "girl" he had been dreaming about was actually a man! After learning the truth, he looked back on the situation when he was in a relationship and found that he was very suspicious. "Now when you see a woman, you have to wonder whether it is a man or a woman, and your heart has left a shadow," he said.
