What are some ways to adjust your emotions?
When we are complaining about all this, what kind of emotions do we feel inside? Whenever our complaints are increasing, our confidence in our work will be reduced to a scale. This is for sure, when we have such emotions, our motivation will be less! In this way, our website may be gradually defeated by our emotions, and we will give up this job completely unknowingly. So we should adjust our emotions at the appropriate time!
I have met many people who are optimistic about life and have control over everything at work. Even if something big happens, they will handle it in an orderly manner! I once experienced such a thing, let me tell you in detail!
It was an early autumn morning, and the dim weather gave people an indescribable depression. It is true that I have to admit that the weather has a great impact on people's mood. That morning, I felt that my mind was not very clear, and I was in a dazed state. Walking on the way to work, I always felt that something was going to happen. I didn't expect it to really make me think right. Such an event is something I will never forget, a speeding motorcycle and a motorcycle burglar! I can only describe him this way. He stole my backpack, which contained my computer, which contained the information I wrote after staying up all night. This information is very important to our company and is related to the survival of the company! I can only describe the importance of it. I was stunned. I couldn't believe my eyes. One day, I will have this information. If I lose my computer, I may be lost for a while, but I can still earn it back. But if I lose this information, I may lose my future. I feel as if the sky is falling! I really don't know how I got to the company and how to tell the boss such a thing. But there is no wind and rain as I imagined! The boss only asked me a few questions:
1. Give you one day, can you write this information?
2. Is the lost data perfect?
3. Do you still want to work hard for everyone?
4. You are so depressed now, can you recover your losses?
Yes, I suddenly woke up. When I quit the boss's office, I really felt that these words would apply to me for the rest of my life! After all, I wrote the information. Even if I can't copy it completely, I know the general idea. Every piece of information is in my head. Maybe I can write a more perfect thing in a day? I work in this company, and I have caused so much loss, but the boss still asked me if I am willing to work hard for everyone! A strong sense of responsibility occupies my heart. At the same time, I also know that I am so depressed that I can't get good results at all. I keep complaining about God's injustice and why such a thing happened to me. All of this is completely useless. It will only make me more depressed and defeated by reality!
When it comes to this, some people will say, isn't it very simple? Many people have said this, and I know that many people say that complaining for no reason or being low for no reason is unnecessary, but people are used to such emotions in their lives, complaining about poor leadership, complaining about bad relationships between colleagues, complaining, complaining! Those who can really see through this do need to go through some things before they can fully see through!
That time, I spent a day to complete a week's work, the partner was very satisfied with my planning, and the company turned a corner. Is all this just because of a few words from the boss? Of course not, because everyone has such potential, and when we unleash such potential, it is very scary. Stop complaining and see if the things you complained about in the past can be done better with your current efforts!
That time, I got a lot of bonuses, a lot of praise, lost computer, lost data, I thank this "cat burglar". Because he really made me grow in that moment, and he made the self I once knew look brand new, and the burst of motivation made me afraid of myself.
After going through this incident, no matter what happens, I will not complain. I am just looking for a solution.
Today, I really want to write about my experience and tell everyone that if you don't understand this article or the truth behind it, it doesn't matter. I believe that one day in the future, when you look back, you will find that we were still young. What we have experienced now is only that small part, an inevitable stage, a stage that will inevitably make us grow!
