Have you ever been given your heart but treated as a spare tire? We all know that loving someone doesn't require anything in return, but in the process of dating and giving, we still expect the other party to respond. If your partner really treats you as a spare tire, then you must seriously consider your next step.

　　1. Ambiguous but unwilling to get too close

　　His words always give you some hints, such as: you are a very important person in my heart, if we are still single after XX years, it is better to get married, you are not just friends to me, if my girlfriend is like you It would be nice... In short, it gives you the illusion that you are special in his heart and may have a future, but when you want to get closer, confirm the relationship, or let him dig his heart out, he always keeps a little distance.

　　2. Always passive, unless you want to make out

　　He rarely takes the initiative to invite or contact you, and even if he does take the initiative, there are only two situations. One is that he wants to make out, and the other is that he doesn't find you until the last minute. He rarely makes an appointment with you a few days or even a week in advance. Why? It's not that they are shy and reserved, he has all kinds of ways to contact you, but he doesn't, which only shows that in his mind you are actually Plan B. If he likes you, he will take into account your feelings and needs, not only when he wants to sleep with you.

　　3. Don't want to introduce you to relatives and friends, and don't want to know your circle

　　When you want to take him to meet family and friends, or complain that he doesn't introduce friends to you, he always shirks it for various reasons, such as love has nothing to do with others, family members have a bad temper, etc., so please be mentally prepared, the above tricks can be automatically translated into "you are just a spare tire, I don't plan to be serious, this will affect my search for a girlfriend". Men are not complicated, if he really likes you, he will definitely be in a hurry to tell the world, let everyone know that you belong to him from now on.

　　4. Find various reasons to avoid your "exposure" in his Moments

　　Generally speaking, as long as two people confirm their relationship, they will be in a hurry to show their love, and they will be tired of Moments every day. But if a man only regards you as the object of passing the time, no matter how much sweet talk they usually have, he will not be willing to let you appear in the circle of friends as a girlfriend. In the face of your doubts, he will always find various reasons, and the reason is the same as the previous one.

　　5. He always stands you up, and he can't give you a definite answer readily

　　It's normal for you to be stood up once in a while, but once his behavior becomes a habit, or when you make an invitation, such as going to the movies tonight, he always says "I want to see the situation" and "I'll reply to you later", so be careful, you are probably just a spare tire. If a man is really so busy, how can he not know what his plans are for the evening? If he is really busy with work, just tell you directly, why hide it? A man who really cares about you, even if he can't meet you temporarily, he will immediately find another time to ask you out.

　　6. You never spend the night together

　　After making out, he would never stay for the night, even if it was late, he would insist on going home, always using the reason of "there is an emergency tomorrow morning" to prevaricate? Believe it, this man will not be serious about you.

　　7. You always seem to show up when he's not good

　　When we encounter happy things, we always want to tell our loved ones as soon as possible, right? But he seems to only tell you when he is not in a good mood and needs you to appear? If so, either this person is in a bad mood often (please stay away from it), or he has left his beauty to his Muse, leaving you with only the other side.

　　8. He refuses to commit and is always procrastinating

　　It's already ambiguous, and everything has come to bed, but as long as it comes to confirming the relationship, he is always procrastinating? What ex is too hurt, what are you in such a hurry to do, we can't be together for the time being, I am used to the blablablabla of life like the wind, and I come for any reason, but I just don't explain it to you. They know that women in love can persevere as long as they give some hope, but you don't know, you will only get deeper and deeper, and you will not know it when you are a spare tire.

　　9. What you promise is often not achieved

　　"Too busy, forgot" is the most common reason they use. But are they really so busy that you can forget everything you say? So busy that you can't even make a phone call or send a WeChat? Since your work is busier than the president, then go be your president, why do you still have time to play ambiguous? To put it bluntly, I didn't care about you.

　　10. He never returns your calls and WeChat messages in a timely manner.

　　Men who use you as a spare tire rarely take the initiative to contact you, and even if you ask him, he may not respond to you in time. Especially if you send WeChat, he may directly pretend that he didn't see it, is busy, or didn't receive it, and then he will not reply, or he will come back after being bored.

　　No matter how good your conditions are, there is always someone who doesn't love you. If this man doesn't show his sincerity at all, please don't waste any more time, repeatedly giving yourself hope and justifying him. You must know that a bad man, even if he gets it, is just a kind of self-devaluation.

Signs that a woman is using you as a spare tire